SPAM: 3 Signs She's Thinking Of Cheating

Dating's a contact sport.

And if you're in "the game" for
any period of time what-so-ever,
you're going to meet a girl.

Maybe even "the" girl.

She's funny, intelligent, smart,
kind and sensitive. The sex is
great and your friends / family
love her.

Best of all -

She's agreed to be your girlfriend.

Fast forward a few months... Sometimes
even a few weeks...

... All of the sudden, you're worried
about her LEAVING you.

She's acting shady.

She's out with MALE friends.

And she doesn't always pick up your
calls or answer your texts.

So what do you do?

And when should you worry?

In this email, I'm going to reveal
the 3 sure-fire warning signals
that reveal - without fail -
She is thinking about cheating.

And you'll also learn an easy,
step-by-step system to counter
each way, individually.

>> You should know that almost ALL
cheating is caused by 'lack' or 'loss'
of sexual attraction. (As I'm about to
reveal, in a second)

And keeping up an "attractive front"
or "acting dominant" gets tiring and
even PAINFUL as the act wears on.

So if you'd like to BECOME the attractive
guy she brags about to her friends, and
never again need to even WORRY about
the warning signals you'll learn below,
I highly recommend reading The Attraction
Code.

Just one read through will change the
way you ACT around women, for good.
And use just ONE of the techniques
you learn in Chapter 3, because you'll
be hooked on the new, powerful
attraction even MARRIED women
give you.

You can read all about it, below:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/welcome/ebook1.php
>>

Today's email was inspired by this
email I got, from a reader just like
you.

(And if YOU want to email me, send
a note to askvin@vindicarlo.com.
I read them all, personally, once
per day)

***QUESTION FROM A READER***

"Hey Vin,

Because of The Attraction Code and
The Red Pill I'm dating this amazing
woman.

Shes smart, funny and she's always nice
to other people. Not to mention she's a
firecracker in bed and we always have
a blast when we're together.

I met her at a Barnes and Noble store
in downtown Chicago where I used the
"Hey, I noticed you reading that book
and I thought you looked super cute
and focused" opener that you talk
about in your emails all the time.

She loved it so I touched her using
the DEL and Secrets of Sexual Tension
and in no time she gave me her phone
number because she had to leave.

I think she was going to a friends house
for a party or something. I forget but
it doesn't matter because it all worked
out.

We went on a first date and spent the
night together. She cooked breakfast
and I relaxed and then was on my way
in the morning.

We grew together and started getting
closer and closer as time when on.
Now I'm a romantic at heart, so I
keep trying to please her as much
as possible. But it seems no matter
WHAT I do, she's drifting farther
away.

I've told her I'm going to stop spending
time with my friends and start hanging
out with her more. I've started buying
her little gifts and trinkets. And the
last time she was sick I came over
and made her soup.

Every single time she seems happy
and still she kind of ignores me,
or finds ways to get around plans
with me or even flirts with other
guys in front of me!

It pisses me off SO much because I
see myself turning into Patrick from
the Attraction Code to the point
I'm even hitting on other girls at
the bar to try to make my girlfriend
jealous.

I guess I can't see the forest because
I'm in the trees, so I REALLY need your
help!

I either want to keep her (because I
really love her Vin) or I want to get
my fucking balls back!

I'm extremely frustrated and I need
your help. HELP!

- Frank C., Chicago IL"

>>> Wow Frank,

You got quite a problem there.

First, a couple of good things:

1) You notice you're acting a little
less dominant.

In fact, you even cited the "Patrick"
story in The Attraction Code, so I
know you're on the right path.

But like you put it, you "can't see
the forest because you're stuck in
the trees"

(Love that line. I'm going to steal
it, if you don't mind :-)

2) You see her slipping away.

Most men don't notice this until it's
YEARS too late.

Some real WARNING SIGNS are:

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SIGNS SHE'S DRIFTING AWAY:
SHE'S FLIRTING AROUND
**************************

Honestly, this is something you
shouldn't tolerate.

It's blatantly disrespectful.

I know modern media and today's sitcom
has you sitting back and LAUGHING at
it on TV...

... But it's not OK. Because it's NOT
your fucking job to make her like easy
while she's practically cheating on
your in public.

In fact, if she disrespects you, insults
you verbally, or attacks you physically,
you should get the hell out of that
relationship. ASAP.

Men get a bad rap lately.

We're supposed to "take" the brunt
of the blame and be the butt of the
dating jokes.

And honestly, if you let her continue
that way, you're going to lose her
for good.

Remember - Women love strong men.

Men who are DOMINANT, relative to her.

Ie. men who will stand up to her bullshit,
and let her know when she's acting like
a child.

That doesn't mean you EVER need to "put
her in her place"

But true as the sky is blue means you
need to stand up for yourself, and respect
yourself as a man.

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SIGN SHE'S DRIFTING AWAY:
YOUR SEX LIFE GOES STALE
*************************

This is the easiest - and most common -
To spot.

You get into a relationship, and the
sex is red hot.

In fact, the more you make love and
explore each other's bodies, the more
and more passionate you both get.

Soon, you've hit your sexual pinnacle,
and you both can't stop touching each
other.

... Then it's all downhill from there.

You start seeing sex as a routine.

You have sex the same time, and the
same place, every time you do it.

You even use the same positions,
and feel mildly unfulfilled each
and every time.

There are two reasons your love life
may be slowly grinding to a halt:

1) The Sex Lacks Variety And Spice

Women are very picky, sexually.

What turns her on can range from
being dominated (and even tied
up in some girl's fantasies) to
an intimate lover who makes her
feel like a princess.

And - as her boyfriend - It's your
sexual job to fulfill each and
every one of these roles.

It's tough, I know, but it's
nowhere near impossible.

The real trick to keep the VARIETY
HIGH in your sex life.

Even if it's just the positions,
length, amount of orgasms she
has and places you make love.

Because if - in her mind - The
last four or five times you two
were intimate were DIFFERENT,
she'll automatically put you
in the "great lover" category.

Even if the sex was OK, or average
at best.

Honestly, it's easy to be great in bed
because 90% of her orgasm starts in
her mind.

Making her feel sexy... Dominated...
And safe, all in one, will give her
a sexual experience she'll RAVE to
her friends about.

For the other 10% - the technical and
easy ways to 'warm her up' quickly -
I'd recommend a great sex book like
The Sex God Method, or my program:
Dominant Sexual Power.

In DSP, I teach you the 90% to turn her
on, and the 10% to get her off. And you'll
learn it gradually or all at once.

It's your choice, the power is in your
hands, and I highly recommend you
read all about it, here:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

2) She's Not Feeling Dominated Enough

You started the relationship a white
knight in shining armor.

A stallion. Her protector. And a guy
she could picture living her life
supporting.

(At least, in her head you did)

And along the way, you started "giving
up" things for her.

Like time with your friends.

Some of your hobbies.

Your free time when she was sick.

(Especially because you got
nothing - not even sex, I assume -
In return)

And the more you invest in the
relationship like that, without
requiring her to "give back",
the more she puts your in the
"beta / friend category", and
less in the "boyfriend / lover
category"

(And the Friend Zone is a place you
want to avoid EVER being, with your
girlfriend)

What happened? Simple:

You lost your dominance.

And you gave up your edge.

The "singles scene" keeps you sharp.

You're "toned" in a mental way, and
are used to talking up women in a
bar scene, then getting her attracted
to you.

Then once you date a single woman for
awhile, your conversation skills slip
back to 'remedial'

Sometimes even worse than when you
started out - Especially if you only
"found your courage" a little while
ago.

So what you REALLY need is a boost
of self-confidence and dominance.

I recommend you re-read The Attraction
Code, and follow the instructions.

However, if you want a QUICK FIX,
right now, try this:

FROM NOW ON

Stay conscious of everything you do
and say to her.

And make sure you're doing things because
you WANT to - Not because you're trying
to make her happy.

Remember that she wants to work for you.

She wants YOU to be the stud-man she
feels LUCKY to be around.

And you should act like him, at all
times.

(Even when you two are sitting on the
couch, watching a movie)

Have sex early, variety ridden and often.

And when it comes to making decisions,
voice your opinion and have the final
say.

It's sort of like your parents or grandparents
had relationships -- Very dominant and
in control -- Because women were HAPPY
at that time.

Thousands of years of sexual history
SUPPORT it.

So do it.

Be her dominant man.

And she'll never dream of leaving you.

*************************
SIGN SHE'S DRIFTING AWAY:
SHE TELLS YOU WHY SHE'S
*NOT* ATTRACTED TO HIM
*************************

This one will give you nightmares.

However, it's the best and most truthful
sign I've seen in my own dating life.

So I suggest you give it a GOOD
amount of thought:

If She "Disqualifies" A Man In Her Life
Who's A Pretty Good-Looking Guy, She's
Either Thinking About - Or Already -
Sleeping With Him.

And it's one of those cold, harsh
realities about dating.

Why is this the truth? Because it's
her way of not getting caught.

Think about it - If she told you
ALL the reasons this guy isn't
good for her, you'd never suspect
they were having an "extra-relationship"
relationship.

So if you suspected her of cheating,
you'd suspect her with someone
else.

And all signs would point to her
NOT sleeping with him.

Her plan works, and you're never
the wiser.

So when she goes out of her way
to tell you why she's NOT sleeping
with another guy...

... Keep your guard up, and pay
extra attention to your relationship.

Spend more time together.

Do more fun things together.

Have better sex.

And basically make your relationship:

A) Fun

B) Exciting

C) Sexual

and

D) Power-Balanced

She'll feel no reason to cheat,
or need to leave.

And you'll both be much, MUCH happier.

You'll notice that all three warning
signs were actually subtle triggers
for the same problem:

The Communication Between You Two
Is Starting To Crumble

And the way to bring it back is
to either make her respect you
more through sex and dominance...

... Or to open up brand-new waves
of communication, and keep things
fun and light.

If you'd like to make your stale relationship
a hot, spicy sexcapade again, I highly
recommend you use the tips in the
Dominant Sexual Power program.

Because you'll discover how to turn her
on, mentally AND physically... With only
your words, touch and even eye contact,
if you wish.

It's truly the most effective program
ever created for taking back your sexual
power and creating mouth watering sexual
tension for her.

Check it out:

http://www.AttractionCodeBook.com/dsp

And if you'd like to open up new ways
of communication, and inject more fun,
confident playfulness into your
life, try watching Conversation Cure.

In it, 5 of the masters of conversation
reveal how to talk to your girlfriend
to get her turned on as the first night
you two had sex.

Plus, there's a whole section on "damage
control" and relationship management.

AND - If you two unfortunately break up -
You'll be armed with every technique
under the sun for meeting a new woman,
so you'll never have a "blank" mind
or awkward silence, ever again.

You can read more about it, here:

http://www.ConversationCure.com/live.php

AND FOR TOMORROW---

Take these steps, with YOUR relationship:

1) Be more dominant, and make her work
for your attention and sex

2) Inject Variety into your sex life,
by "changing it up" and introducing
new techniques, places and fantasies

3) Turn "date nights" into fun activities,
instead of another movie night by the
TV

PLUS - Watch out for these 3 warning
signs that your relationship is
on the rocks:

A) She's Flirting Around

B) Sex Is Getting Scarce

C) And She's Down-Talking Other
Men

... Ignore them at your own peril.

Fix them with the ideas above.

And I'll talk to you later.

Your Friend,

- Vin

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